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Sebastián Videa Burgos's avatar

Tomas, what a great piece. Can completely relate with it. Every day is a battle in between living our best life vs. the life others want for us.

I still struggle with figuring out what I really want to do career-wise and not be biased by what social media or my family says. In your journey towards your best life, did you struggle with this as well? If so, how did you overcome it??

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Azark's avatar

All of this fundamentally depends on how you define value. Is value personal skills and achievements? Is value connection and doing things for others? Because if it's the first, then I agree that it might be necessary to cut ties, and sacrifice connection for your personal growth and aims.

However, if it is the second, "your best life" would be intimately interwoven with others. It would be detrimental to make these kind of sacrifices only to retreat within yourself. You lose genuine change through personal connection.

We're all on a journey to figure out what we value, and what we want to call "the good life." It could even change along the way!

Thanks for your thoughts and writing :)

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