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This is so precious. I remember being in my early twenties and slowly getting sucked into the "well-paid slave" category. It happens so subtly that is easy to still think we have a choice. It's easy to think we are creating more freedom for ourselves until we realize it's just a cage like all the others. But I also think we need to use that knowledge to tap in and "save" others. Maybe our experience in that race is what helps them see the benefits of escaping.

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Jun 18·edited Jun 18Author

Ivan, thank you for your feedback. I believe that there are a lot of people who feel like this at their corporate jobs. Some are so distanced from what they feel and what they want, that it might be hard to reach them. However, I believe that texts like these and personal stories in the comment section might resonate with some and hopefully they will find some inspiration and encouragement to change.

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Dear Tomas as always I like your approach in tackling a very interesting topic. I have to say it is inspiring! I ve tried my hand at being a free agent, had to go back to full time job but I would love to grow a side business! What I missed in my years of being a free agent is a sounding board group.

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Dear Karina, thank you! I am glad it took your interest. Growing a side business while working at a job is a great idea. It is also easier than ever to do this. When your side business grows to the level where you feel comfortable to leave your day job at any time, you can switch. Communication and having a social life is very important. Finding ways to meet people and attract them into your life is crucial while being a free agent.

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Loved this article; some extra courage is just what I needed today. Like you I'm jobless for the same reasons, but I'm working hard every day on the things that I care about. I've worked for big retailers, a research organisation, a big municipality, but it all felt the same. I tried hard, but felt very much out of place.

Even though life isn't easy and still a lot has to come together - especially financially - I know that this is the path. Learning to deal with uncertainty has been the most empowering change on the way.

I would love to hear more about these type of topics!

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Danique, thank you for your shared take on this! I see you have created a good foundation for the further building and development of your life, which is crucial. I am sure that things will come together in time and then they will, you will know that it is for real.

I am very grateful for you expressing the interest in this topic. I have a lot of insights and things to share, this one might be the intro into future texts connected to being free, independent and living life your way. This includes developing critical thinking, questioning everything, getting creative, new experiences, new people and information. Finally, a complete redesign of life based on your personality and experiences. Stuff that works for you, not conventional wisdom. Which I have nothing against btw, you just need to test everything. Glad to keep in touch with you!

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This article was a dose of inspiration for me, Tomas!

I've always known I never want a 9-5 job as my career, but fear that if the time comes for me to work 9-5, I will be stuck.

I'm in a season of my life right now where I can have a part time job while doing schoolwork AND live at home. But it won't last forever. So I'm wondering, where do you think I should start when it comes to working on my own terms? It clearly works for you, so what are some tips to get going?

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Madeline, thank you for your feedback. I am very glad that my text is a source of inspiration.

Here are some advices that worked for me:

1. Stack up some savings to cover your current lifestyle for 1-2 years.

2. Write your monthly expenses and think of the ways to reduce it to minimum.

3. Create multiple streams of income. You can freelance with your current occupation, open an e-store, write online, etc. Avoid giving your time for money, focus on result delivery to payment exchange instead.

4. Make time to pursue your endeavours. Show up and work on it everyday.

5. Build habits that keep you sharp and energetic. Exercise, cold-shower, improve diet, meditate.

6. Show up to events, public places every day and meet new people. Opportunities are where the people gather. It is also good for your mental health to actively socialise.

7. Cut down all the unhealthy addictions if you have any.

I am sure these will be helpful to start. If you will need some further advice, feel free to contact me.

Cheers.☕

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Thank you for this, Tomas! I appreciate your knowledge.

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Being a jobless at 26, I can relate to this one so much, I have always dreamt of making a living out of doing what I love the most to do! Sometimes I barely feel I can. But this read gives some reassurance and hope to not give up on my dream! Thanks for sharing!❤️

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Jun 13·edited Jun 13Author

Thank you for reading! Being jobless is ok, as long as you work hard every day. You simply cannot fail if you show up, persevere and put yourself out of the comfort zone. People will notice you and will start offering you opportunities. Just put yourself out there and grind. Cheers and have a good day, my friend.

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Very true! Thanks for your word of support here!🫂💪

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Thank you for sharing this Tomas, a much needed reminder to take control of your life.

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Bansi, thank you for reading and being here!

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Thank you, Sarah!

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